Sunday, July 08, 2007

And That's That.

J and I called it quits today. Well she did anyway... I was more trying to figure out what the heck was going on and reacting to a lot of perceived chaos. I definitely see the wisdom in not continuing any longer, and I'm not trying to vilify J in any way. My heart is breaking, but I know the experience will serve me well in the long run. There's a lot of fallout to process. Apologies in advance if I don't post right away, or if my next posts are incredibly "emo" and introspective. Feeling pretty wounded at the moment.


Anonymous said...

Ouch. I hope that the healing "processing" stage moves along smoothly for you.

Anonymous said...


I'm so sorry... :(

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Anonymous said...

Thoughts with you Todd.
It's such an incredibly complex situation.
I remember calling it quits several times with my now husband. We still have MANY issues.
I'm of course not knowing your direct issues, but for me my husbands situation was VERY daunting, and overwhelming...wonder if she feels the same way.
Hope you feel better soon.